If your child has ADHD, have you set up a meeting with your child’s teacher or at least written a note to him/her letting them know about it and explaining some of their challenges? One of the most important steps to your child’s scholastic success is a relationship of trust with your child’s teachers.
Whether you have ADHD or not, the process of personal development & growth is not a walk in the park. Why? Because most of the memorable, life-changing lessons, hurt. But the resulting eduction is usually invaluable. “Any process you are going through will get tougher before it gets easier. That’s what makes learning a gift. Even though pain is your teacher.” Which movie?
The key thing to remember is that if you do learn the lesson that life is trying to teach, in that particular area of your life, things do become more clear and you start responding to situations in a powerful, life-affirming way instead of being destructive. What is life teaching you now?